
Twitter user @ebukameansgreat asked a question about ‘bride price’ (a sum of money or quantity of goods given to a bride’s family by the groom and his family) and the internet responded. He asked;
As a woman, do you think bride price is compulsory?
— Ebuka (@EbukaMeansGreat) June 23, 2020
Nigerian Twitter users poured out their hearts and shared their thoughts about the age-long African wedding tradition. Some of the responses were insightful so we just had to share. Check them out!
No! It has long moved from a symbol of appreciation to a money making venture. Charging as if they are selling off the child, then there's the annoying "bargaining". If I have my way,I'll scrap it,or both parties pay(bride price/groom price) I mean you are taking their son too. https://t.co/3bUgzz7Hob
— R.E.G Armattoe 🪙 (@DonArmattoe) June 23, 2020
Aside the usual "it's tradition" mantra,there is absolutely no other justification for it! I mean,we both love each other,we'll both support you guys,so why try to milk the poor man? It's annoying, Lord knows my partner and I won't collect a dime from anyone,just love our baby
— R.E.G Armattoe 🪙 (@DonArmattoe) June 23, 2020
As a matter of fact, i think it's totally not important.
— NURSE SOSO (@EkeneRiches) June 23, 2020
Bride price shouldn't be debated. You know what should be scrabbed and 🚮🚮🚮 it's those kingsmen rites. Their sense of entitlement with the list 😡.
— ThePrintGuru (@_Peace_Oluchi) June 23, 2020
I don't think 'bride price' is the tea here cos an insignificant amount is mostly accepted.
— The Perfume Goddess, Peaches Perfumes and Peace❤ (@PeachesPerfumes) June 23, 2020
The 'List'…now this is the real tea!…but then again, what do I know?
Y'all keep smelling nice cos iSell exotic fragrances ✌
What are your thoughts about paying bride price – is it necessary, is it just ‘activity’, should it be scrapped? We would love to read from you. Share your thoughts in the comments section.
Lonita
Eguolo Anita Etefe is a wedding and travel enthusiast
