‘I recommend what I call Temporary Separation’ – Omotola Jalade-Ekeinde

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Nollywood actress – Omotola Jalade-Ekeinde has married to her pilot husband – Captain Ekeinde-for over a decade. The actress spoke to Ekerete Udoh of Vanguard about her marriage and a host of other issues. Read excerpts from the interview below.

Secret of her success in marriage

I have been favored by the Lord. I am truly blessed to have been married to one-of-a-kind husband who appreciates what I do, encourages me to excel in my craft. Let me tell you this: I take my marriage very seriously. If you treat your marriage with levity and careless abandon, you will reap the reward for such bad behavior. My husband is an angel, brought by God to my life, and it has been a blessing having him as my husband.”

How she deals with attention from male Admirers

Sure, I have received lots of goodies from my male admirers. I do not give anything in return. I always tell them that I am married and would not compromise my martial vows. If after making that point clear, they still continue to shower me with gifts, maybe believing that something will break in the future, then I cannot help them.

Asked if she had ever met men that she genuinely took a liking to, and was tempted to sacrifice her marital vows, she answered:

Absolutely. I have been tempted many times to cheat on my husband by men I really liked. But when you think of what you stand to lose, the destruction of all you have labored to build, when you weigh all the options, you are left to conclude that it is not worth the trouble. I know some women will find this somewhat objectionable, but if they want to be truthful to themselves, they will agree with me that, as married women, we have all faced moments that I have just described.

When asked if her passion for her husband has cooled off with time?, she answered

Of course, it has. Which married woman who has been with her husband for years will, in her true state, tell you that the feeling has remained the same as it was the first time or the first year she met her husband? It is bound to cool off. What I recommend to women is what I call “temporary separation.” You will make yourself unavailable to your husband. Go somewhere – go on vacation with your friends, do something bold, lose weight, look different and, after weeks, come home, looking drop dead gorgeous, and I bet you, the fire of passion will be mightily rekindled and you will feel brand new again. I have applied this principle in my marriage and it has worked wonders.

Asked if the desire to rekindle her passion was responsible for the huge weight loss that is very noticeable about her, she countered.

You have to love yourself first. I do not see the weight loss you are talking about. Women should learn to appreciate the fact that you can live without anyone and that the world would not come crashing on you if you did so. I think women should empower themselves while still remaining true to their marriage and husbands. If a marriage is stressful, emotionally destructive, I think we should be strong enough to walk away from such damaging unions.

Source: Vanguard


Omotola posted this on Twitter in reaction to this interview. There is no word yet on if the interview was actually conducted years ago and accurate, or if it was not conducted at all.

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